Selena Gomez has not only become a billionaire but also shocked her fans. The singer revealed her stunning engagement ring and confessed that she's getting married. She is now happy, having found her true love but before this, she had more than one heartbreak. Read about her personal dramas and the love that brought Selena Gomez happiness in our article.

Selena Gomez Said «Yes»

In December 2024, American singer, actress, and entrepreneur Selena Gomez took to her Instagram page to share an exciting and heartfelt announcement with her millions of fans worldwide. In the post, she revealed her engagement to renowned music producer Benny Blanco.

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Gomez included a photo of a stunning engagement ring with a large diamond on her finger, as well as a picture with her 36-year-old fiance. She also posted a snapshot from a romantic picnic, where the proposal took place.

From Collaborators to Soulmates

Selena and Benny have known each other for a long time. He is a renowned producer and has written numerous hit songs. Among the stars he has worked with are Justin Bieber, Ed Sheeran, Maroon 5, Katy Perry, Rihanna, and, of course, Selena Gomez. Benny has always crafted music that perfectly suit each artist.

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For a long time, Selena and Benny interacted solely on a professional level, eventually forming a strong friendship. According to YouTuber Kai Cenat's 2024 stream, Benny initially even helped Selena navigate her personal life, introducing her to other men. However, over time, they realized they were meant to be together.

A Star-Studded Celebration

After the engagement was announced, the couple received a lot of congratulations from both friends and fans. Among those who congratulated the newly engaged couple were Cardi B, Jennifer Aniston, and Gwyneth Paltrow. Taylor Swift commented on Selena’s post, playfully promising to bring flowers to the wedding.

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Benny Blanco himself joined the fun with a cheeky comment, referring to Selena as his "wife." "Hey, wait... that's my wife," the musician wrote, and his comment garnered nearly 150,000 likes. Selena's ex-boyfriend, Justin Bieber, could not ignore the news of the engagement.

Justin Bieber Reacts to His Ex-Girlfriend's Engagement

An insider has disclosed to the Daily Mail that Justin Bieber already knows the news of his ex-girlfriend's engagement. Despite the fact that the artist has been married for a long time and is raising a son, he was “momentarily hurt.”

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Nevertheless, he hopes that Selena will be happy in her new relationship. He also added that the news marked “the end of the Bieber and Gomez era.”

How It All Began: Selena Gomez and Justin Bieber’s Iconic Romance

The love story of Selena Gomez and Justin Bieber dates back to 2010 when they were just 16 and 17 years old. Even today, their relationship remains one of the most discussed topics in the media.

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Initially, rumors suggested that their romance was a publicity stunt but it wasn’t long before the two genuinely fell for each other. They kept their relationship private at first but fans caught glimpses of their affection through kisses and hugs. Denying their relationship became impossible.

The Red Carpet Moment

In 2011, Justin and Selena officially confirmed their romance by stepping out together at the Vanity Fair party following the Oscars. The event became one of the year’s most unforgettable moments.

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Selena’s elegant gown and Justin’s stylish look perfectly complemented their image as a couple. Their radiant smiles said more than words ever could. It was the beginning of an incredible love story.

The Honeymoon Phase of Their Relationship

After publicly confirming their relationship, Justin and Selena began delighting fans with shared photos from romantic dinners, strolls and travels. Their 2011 vacation in Hawaii, where the couple enjoyed the sun and ocean, became a vivid symbol of their closeness.

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Fans nicknamed them "Jelena" and followed the development of their romance with great enthusiasm. They seemed like the perfect couple, complementing each other in every way. However, behind the facade of happiness, challenges were brewing, which soon began to test their relationship.

The First Breakup

After nearly two years together, the couple broke up for the first time in early November 2012, following months of denying rumors that their romance had ended.

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According to People in 2012, their busy and conflicting schedules made things increasingly difficult. Adding fuel to the fire were persistent rumors about the singer’s alleged infidelity. Despite their efforts to save the relationship, it ultimately proved to be too challenging. But was it the end?

The Couple is in No Hurry to Put an End to the Relationship

Even after the official breakup, Justin and Selena were seen together many times. Rumors about their reunion were constantly appearing but the couple did not comment on anything.

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From time to time, the media spots the stars together on vacation or walks. They fuel their curiosity by posting photos of themselves together on Instagram. Fans continue to hope for their reunion but no miracle happens.

A Cry from the Heart

In 2014, Selena released the emotional track The Heart Wants What It Wants, which deeply moved her fans. The song openly expresses the struggles of love and the heartbreak of a painful breakup.

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Listeners quickly interpreted the track as a heartfelt reflection on her relationship with Justin Bieber. Many were convinced that Selena was still grappling with the aftermath of their split, unable to fully move on from the emotional toll it had taken.

A Harrowing Diagnosis

In 2014, Selena Gomez was diagnosed with lupus. Her grandfather, Ricardo, shared that the disease’s symptoms only worsened over time, leaving Selena feeling physically and emotionally drained. The emotional toll of her breakup with Justin Bieber further exacerbated her health struggles.

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Despite the immense challenges, Selena remained determined to fight, often reminding herself of her purpose to help others. Her resilience paid off, as she ultimately achieved remission and continued moving forward with renewed strength and inspiration.

A New Stage in Life

Selena's second most popular relationship was with The Weeknd. They first met at the Victoria's Secret Fashion Show in 2015, where they both performed. However, they started a relationship in 2017.

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At that time, while Selena had already gone through a breakup with Bieber, the musician had also broken up with model Bella Hadid. For some time, they did not advertise their romance but later began to actively post photos of themselves on Instagram.

They Revealed They Were Together

Selena Gomez and The Weeknd made their relationship official at the 2017 Met Gala, gracing the red carpet as a couple. Unafraid of the cameras, the pair openly displayed their affection, sharing tender kisses and frequent embraces in front of the public eye.

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Photographers finally got their chance to capture the couple’s radiant love, showcasing their connection in all its glory. It seemed like a love story destined to last forever, one that felt as magical as a modern fairy tale.

Selena Gomez Brings Her Family to The Weeknd's Concert

Their relationship quickly gained momentum, with Selena Gomez taking a major step by introducing The Weeknd to her mother. Mandy Teefey approved of her daughter’s new partner, which delighted Selena immensely.

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A few days later, Selena brought her relatives to The Weeknd's show in Dallas, where they enjoyed a fantastic time together. This moment became one of the most memorable and heartwarming highlights of their romance.

Are Gomez and Lover Planning to Record a Single?

The couple's fans have learned that their favorites are planning to record a joint single. Fans are excited and looking forward to the announcement of the song.

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At the time, The Weeknd's name was listed under Gomez's single In Her Element on the songwriter Max Martin's Wikipedia page. But the case did not go further than that. Gomez was hospitalized again. And in the end, the couple never released a song together.

Operating Table

Unexpectedly, Selena began to feel unwell and was rushed to the hospital. According to W Magazine, her condition required a kidney transplant, which was donated by her best friend, Francia Raisa. She also had to undergo chemotherapy as part of her treatment.

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Selena later shared, as reported by The Daily Mail, that the healing process was slow and challenging. However, with the unwavering support of her friends, family, and significant other, she managed to endure and overcome this difficult chapter in her life.

How The Weeknd Supported Selena During Her Difficult Time

The Weeknd stood by Selena Gomez through her health challenges and recovery after her kidney transplant. In 2017, People reported that Abel adjusted his tour schedule to align with Selena’s surgery date.

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He meticulously planned his commitments to ensure he could be by her side during the operation and her rehabilitation period. Abel’s devotion and care were evident as he prioritized Selena’s well-being over his demanding career. However, as time passed, their relationship began to shift, hinting at the challenges ahead.

Their Final Weeks Together

Selena Gomez and The Weeknd gradually began spending less time together, with paparazzi increasingly capturing them apart. Ultimately, People reported that the couple parted ways due to the challenges of distance and conflicting schedules. However, fans questioned whether this was the whole story.

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Not long after, Selena was seen in public with Justin Bieber, reigniting their friendship and signaling the end of her relationship with Abel. Meanwhile, The Weeknd rekindled his connection with Bella Hadid, proving both stars were ready to move forward in different directions.

Selena is Happy

Later, Selena publicly spoke about her breakup with The Weeknd. She shared with Billboard in 2017 that their relationship ended in friendship. She is very happy and proud that they parted ways peacefully.

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According to her, she has never experienced anything like this in her life. Now Abel is her best friend and they are ready to support each other and keep in touch. But it seems the musician had a different opinion.

Call Out My Name: The Song That Sparked Speculation

Shortly after their split, The Weeknd released the song Call Out My Name. The lyrics claimed, "I was just a pit stop for you, and you wasted my time." Fans immediately speculated that the single was directed at Selena Gomez, hinting at unresolved feelings and frustration.

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Theories swirled that Selena may have been with Abel as a way to move on from Justin Bieber, only to return to him when the opportunity arose. Whatever the truth, Selena did reconnect with Justin for a time, leaving fans of both relationships divided in their reactions.

A Second Chance?

In 2017, Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez started appearing together. They were spotted attending church services, enjoying bike rides, and generally looking happy. Was this a fresh start for the couple? Friendship or something more?

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Though the pair often claimed they were just friends, their candid photos and surprise meetups suggested otherwise. Fans of the couple were thrilled to see them together again. However, not everyone was as supportive—Selena's mother reportedly disapproved of their rekindled connection.

Selena's Mother's Disapproval

Selena Gomez's mother, Mandy Teefey, was openly against her daughter's relationship with Justin Bieber, deeming it toxic, as reported by Vogue in 2017. Mandy was particularly upset when she discovered that Selena had rekindled her romance with Justin. Their differing opinions led to a heated argument, ultimately resulting in Selena unfollowing her mother on Instagram.

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Mandy viewed Justin as an unsuitable match for her daughter, citing his history of scandalous behavior and past incidents that left Selena heartbroken. The singer’s reputation as a bad boy, combined with moments of public discord in their relationship, solidified Mandy’s concerns. In the end, her worries seemed justified, as the rekindled romance ultimately didn't last.

Goodbye, Bieber!

In 2018, one of the most famous couples in the world broke up for good. This breakup caused a sharp deterioration in Selena's health and she fell into severe depression. During the year, the singer was hospitalized twice, The Sun writes. And in 2019, the star had a nervous breakdown.

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According to TMZ sources, Selena had tests done and they showed an alarmingly low white blood cell count. After that, Gomez's family persuaded the girl to go to a psychiatric hospital and undergo treatment, which she did. Later, the reason for the star's depression became known.

Unexpected Twist

After his final breakup with Selena Gomez in 2018, Justin Bieber didn’t waste any time. Just two months later, he quickly announced his engagement to model Hailey Baldwin. In September, the couple legally formalized their relationship, and a year later, they held a lavish wedding ceremony, the photos of which were widely circulated in the media.

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Naturally, this news didn’t go unnoticed by Gomez. The singer had a hard time coping, and according to People in 2018, it was this event that triggered Selena’s depression and nervous breakdown. However, despite this incredibly challenging period, Selena Gomez eventually managed to regain control of her life.

The End of the Jelena Era

After her recovery, Selena returned to her usual life. In 2019, she released a track called Lose You To Love Me, which fans believe was a message to her ex.

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The singer likely bid farewell to her former lover through this song, according to fans. After that, she decided to turn the page and start a new chapter in her life.

Time to Choose Yourself

As the star later noted, breaking up with the singer taught her to "choose herself and embrace life once again." She later revealed that her relationship with Bieber had been toxic, and she had suffered from constant emotional abuse.

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After these challenging experiences, the singer took a break from her personal life and focused on her career. However, finding solitude proved impossible as fans continued to speculate about her alleged romances.

Did Niall Horan Date Selena Gomez?

Suddenly, Selena Gomez and Irish singer and songwriter Niall Horan found themselves at the center of a whirlwind of rumors and gossip. It all started when they were photographed together during a friendly dinner with friends.

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While many dismissed the photo as nothing significant, fans of the superstars quickly noticed that Niall was seen with his arm around Selena in the picture. Naturally, fans were eager for the story to develop but ultimately, nothing came of it beyond that embrace.

Another Romance?

In 2022, the singer was spotted by paparazzi with Italian-Canadian film producer Andrea Iervolino. Once again, Selena Gomez didn’t confirm the romance rumors—what happened between her and Iervolino was, at best, nothing more than a brief romantic story.

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The pair traveled to Italy together a few weeks after their first outing. While in Florence, they were seen holding hands during a visit to the Galleria dell'Accademia before enjoying a shared meal at a local restaurant. There were a few more meetings after that but the story ended there.

Zayn Malik Suspected of Dating Selena Gomez

Fans began speculating about a romance between Zayn Malik, a former member of the iconic band One Direction. The rumors sparked after the singer posted a mysterious photo on Instagram, as reported by Daily Mail in 2023. The black-and-white image shows Zayn hugging a woman whose face is hidden.

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Fans of Zayn were convinced it was Selena Gomez, as she had recently shared a photo of herself with light-colored hair and the same manicure. Adding fuel to the rumors, Selena and Zayn were recently spotted in Paris together during Fashion Week. However, Selena Gomez denied all the rumors, clarifying that she and Zayn Malik are not dating.

Searching for “the One”

Selena Gomez has often found herself at the center of speculation about her love life. Over the years, the media and fans have linked her to numerous famous men, fueling endless rumors. However, none of these connections ever seemed to turn into anything serious, leaving Selena still searching for “the one.”

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Despite the constant attention, Selena remained focused on her personal growth and career, expressing in interviews that she valued authenticity and was unwilling to settle. After years of navigating the challenges of high-profile relationships and public scrutiny, it appears that Selena may have finally found someone special.

It Was Just the Beginning

A few years before they became a topic of public discussion, Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco collaborated on the producer's song I Can't Get Enough, which also featured J Balvin and Tainy. In March 2019, the quartet released a music video for the track, showcasing playful scenes, including moments where Selena interacts with Blanco while dressed in a teddy bear costume.

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This collaboration marked the start of a budding friendship between the two. Their professional chemistry and shared creative experiences laid the foundation for their connection.

A Special Friendship

Selena and Benny began meeting more often, discussing a variety of topics ranging from professional matters to personal ones. The singer opened up about her feelings regarding her new dates and shared her plans for the future.

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Benny, in turn, listened attentively and supported her in every way. Selena felt increasingly comfortable around her friend, and she found herself wanting to spend more and more time with him.

The Rumors are Spreading...

In 2023, Selena released her first and only release, Single Soon, produced by Blanco and Cashmere Cat. And everything would have been fine if curious fans hadn't started to record interesting details that indicated that the singer was dating the producer.

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Both she and her mom, Mandy Teefey, subscribed to Benny's Instagram page. Later, he began to actively promote Blanco's new cookbook Open Wide on the social network. She notes that the author is one of her favorite chefs.

Gomez Reveals the Truth

Speculation was swirling online as fans began flooding Selena’s comments with questions about whether she was dating Blanco. Surprisingly, Selena decided to break her silence and reveal the truth.

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Selena Gomez confirmed her relationship with Blanco in a series of comments to fans on Instagram. She wrote that the producer meant everything to her and added that they had been together for about six months.

A Ring with ‘B’

As Selena decided to no longer hide her feelings, she complemented her comments about the relationship with several photos. These included a post featuring her beloved and an Instagram Story.

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She also stunned fans with an exquisite white gold ring adorned with diamonds. The piece was engraved with the letter "B," likely a tribute to the initials of her new partner, Benny Blanco.

Selena Gomez Took The First Step

Selena Gomez was the first to confess her love, record producer Benny Blanco shared during a livestream with Kai Cenat in 2024. He revealed that the singer had invited him out for dinner. At first, he thought it was just a casual friendly meeting but it turned out to be something entirely unexpected.

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Initially, the producer was caught off guard but managed to collect himself and reciprocate her feelings. This story quickly spread across the internet, and the couple hoped fans would share in their joy. Instead, they found themselves facing a wave of criticism.

The Backlash

In the beginning, when news of their relationship became public, Benny faced significant backlash. Many critics commented that Selena should find someone more attractive and better suited to her beauty and status. However, Selena was quick to stand up for her partner, firmly defending their love.

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She openly expressed that Benny brought her a level of happiness she had never experienced before. The singer took to social media, sharing heartfelt messages about how true love goes beyond appearances and societal expectations.

A Special Connection

Later on, Gomez’s cover story for Vogue México y Latinoamérica was published. In the interview, Selena shared that she prioritizes a "special connection" with a partner, one that "allows for self-respect and leaves space for the feelings of others."

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She noted how difficult it can be to find someone who truly listens and cares for you. However, when that happens, everything around you changes.

Benny Doesn't Believe in His Happiness

Benny Blanco opened up about his feelings on The Drew Barrymore Show. He confessed that he feels incredibly lucky to be with Selena Gomez. With a smile, he shared how every time he walks past a mirror, he can't help but ask himself how he got so fortunate to have someone like Selena by his side.

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Blanco spoke about Selena with genuine admiration, describing her as not only beautiful but also incredibly kind, compassionate, and supportive. He confessed that her presence in his life inspires him to be a better person every day.

First Holidays Together

From now on, the couple celebrates every holiday side by side. They welcomed their first New Year together in 2024. Gomez and Blanco shared a festive photo on social media during their New Year’s getaway.

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In the picture, the producer is sweetly embracing Gomez, seemingly about to kiss her, while she holds his hand and rests her head gently against him. Selena looked radiant, exuding happiness and calmness in her partner’s arms.

Infinitely Happy

In an interview with Zane Lowe for Apple Music 1, Selena Gomez shared her thoughts on the sense of security Benny Blanco brings to her life. She emphasized the importance of finding a partner who respects and understands her. Gomez highlighted how essential it is to have someone who not only supports her but also comprehends the unique challenges of her world.

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She described their relationship as a source of unparalleled safety and comfort. The experience of relying on someone who truly appreciates her life’s complexities has been profoundly positive for her. This relationship became a cornerstone of her current happiness.

Love of My Love

Selena Gomez celebrated her 32nd birthday with Benny Blanco and a small group of friends on a beach. One of the standout details was a necklace she wore, adorned with the letter "B," a subtle yet meaningful nod to her relationship with Blanco.

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The producer also commemorated the occasion by sharing a heartfelt post referencing their early collaboration on the song I Can't Get Enough. Later in the day, Gomez shared a tender photo of Blanco kissing her forehead on her Instagram Story, captioning it with the heartfelt phrase, "Love of my life."

Shared Hobbies

The producer also shared with Billboard in 2023 that he and the singer, who have a passion for cooking, often work together in the kitchen. They simply love cooking for each other.

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On one occasion, they organized a lunch at a steakhouse for their families, where Gomez's corn casserole and his cornbread with honey butter grabbed everyone's attention.

She Won This Life

Soon after, the singer made her first official appearance with her fiance as a couple at the 2024 Golden Globe Awards. After the event, Gomez shared a photo on her Instagram Story. In the picture, the singer was still in her dark red Giorgio Armani dress, while the producer wore a blazer and gold chains.

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Even though Gomez lost the award for Best Actress in a Television Musical or Comedy that evening, she certainly left feeling like a winner. "I won," she sweetly captioned her photo with Blanco.

Sexiest Men Alive

On November 30, 2024, Gomez expressed her pride and joy after Blanco was named one of People’s Sexiest Men Alive. During an interview with CBS Sunday Morning, she shared her feelings about his inclusion in the annual issue, emphasizing how much she appreciates him.

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Gomez highlighted the deep care and attention Blanco shows for her, noting how he supports, encourages, and inspires her. She described their relationship as one based on mutual respect, joy, and friendship, expressing how lucky she feels to have him by her side.

Selena is Concerned about Privacy of Personal Life

In an interview with The Hollywood Reporter in 2024, Gomez opened up about how she manages privacy while being in the public eye. She discussed her approach to sharing glimpses of her relationship with Blanco on social media, explaining that she feels safer than ever before.

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Gomez highlighted how she sees a future with Benny, and by occasionally sharing moments, she feels it keeps public curiosity at bay. She mentioned that when people know a little about her personal life, they lose the intense desire to pry further. Despite the public details, she emphasized that there is a lot of their relationship that remains private, only for them to enjoy.

She was Never Loved Like That

Selena Gomez shared in her 2024 Vanity Fair cover story how deeply loved she feels in her relationship with Benny Blanco. She expressed that he brings an extraordinary amount of light into her world, something she had never experienced before. For Gomez, their relationship goes beyond romance—it’s built on a strong foundation of friendship and trust.

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Selena emphasized how much she cherishes their ability to communicate openly and honestly. Blanco is not just her partner but also her best friend, someone with whom she can share everything. The singer revealed her excitement about the future and the possibility of building a family together.

Thoughts about Marriage and Children

Benny Blanco opened up about his thoughts on marriage and children during an appearance on The Howard Stern Show. Blanco said that having children is something he looks forward to, calling it his next big goal.

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While he already has numerous godchildren and nephews, he revealed his love for being around kids, underscoring how important family is to him. This glimpse into his plans shows how seriously he views his relationship with Gomez and his desire to build a family with her.

About the Motherhood Perspective

In an interview with Vanity Fair Selena expressed her own desire to have children but revealed that health issues prevent her from carrying a pregnancy. Despite this, she remains determined not to give up on her dream of becoming a mother.

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Gomez mentioned that she is considering options like surrogacy or adoption. With such statements and her diamond engagement ring, any doubts about the seriousness of their relationship were dispelled—it's clear that the couple is happy and committed to building a future together.

Happy End

It seems that Selena is truly happy and ready to turn the page to a new chapter in her life. This is reflected in the caption she shared with her engagement photo on her Instagram story: "Forever starts now."

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Her words embody the excitement and certainty she feels as she embarks on this new journey with Benny, symbolizing her commitment to a future filled with love, happiness, and hope. This moment marks a fresh start for Selena, a chance to embrace her dreams and build a lasting relationship.

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